Family Impact Assessment

I have noticed my loved one becoming more secretive about where they go, who they are with, or how they spend money.

My loved one's mood has become unpredictable — they may go from calm to angry, energetic to withdrawn, without clear reason.

My loved one has stopped keeping up with responsibilities they used to handle (work, household tasks, personal hygiene).

Money has gone missing, or there are unexplained expenses, debts, or financial problems connected to my loved one's behavior.

I have had to cover bills, lend money, or take on extra financial responsibility because of my loved one's substance use.

I find it hard to trust what my loved one tells me because I have caught them in lies or half-truths.

Arguments about substance use (or its consequences) have become a regular part of our relationship.

I feel emotionally distant from my loved one — like I am living with a stranger.

Children or other dependents in the household have been exposed to arguments, erratic behavior, or an unstable home environment.

Daily routines for children or dependents (meals, bedtimes, school activities) have been disrupted by my loved one's behavior.

I spend a significant amount of time worrying about my loved one — their safety, their health, or what they might do next.

I feel guilty, wondering if I caused this or if I should be doing more to help.

I feel anger or resentment toward my loved one that I have trouble letting go of.

I have felt physically unsafe or afraid in my own home because of my loved one's behavior while using substances.

My loved one has become verbally aggressive, threatening, or physically intimidating when using or when confronted about their use.

I have made excuses to others (employer, family, friends) to cover for my loved one's behavior or absences.

I have given my loved one money, a place to stay, or other support even when I suspected it would be used to continue their substance use.

I avoid bringing up my loved one's substance use because I fear their reaction or want to keep the peace.